There is really no benefit to enabling anti-arp spoofing when you are connected to your own home network. You could have it enabled if you connect to untrusted networks, and even then it may be useless unless you are actively being targeted with a MitM attack.
But if you want to know why you are having issues with it when you are connected via wifi, you need to provide wireshark packet captures by saving a packet capture with anti-arp enabled, and another capture with it disabled.