unable to get remote connections on p2p

my p2p general rules are

incoming tcp or udb, any any any destination monitored port
out tcp or udp, any any any any
out tcp allow port 80
block ip in/out

so that’s set, what’s stopping my from remote connections?
is it “svchost.exe” and “system” problems?

That may well depend on the details of your rules, and what is in your CFP log. The log probably has the information about why things are being blocked. In CFP, click Firewall, then Firewall Events, export the log to a file, and post the result here.