Setup and configure network rules via remote desktop

Hi alll,
I use remote desktop to a window 2k3 server(is a webserver, on it setup MSQL), But it hards for me to cofigure on window 2k3 server only rules:

  • allow connect to server by remote desktop
  • publish to internet a web site by http(80)
  • open ftp port
  • window, norton antivirus update
  • the orther is not allow
    would you please help me.
    Thanks so much