I’m looking to learn a programming language, which one should I start with and how much does it cost? (ie simple to start with for little cost)
ps please give links with detailed information please, thankyou
For a first language, I would recommend Java, it is pretty straightforward and great for beginners who are just beginning to learn the art of programming.
this may sound stupid but where can I find a program that will allow me to start programming Java?
I would start by visiting this page.
Look at the different tools offered, I would start by looking at NetBeans. There is a description of each tool, read through them and determine which you think would be best for you 
When you’re ready to download NetBeans you can go here. From there you can choose what you want your NetBeans installation to include, I would recommend starting with the JavaSE pack, of course you can download the others as well if you want.