I obviously jumped in late, but this topic has been littered with too many off-topic posts (what's up with this "you" and "me" deal? Personal / love you / love me comments should be in Personal Messages (or
Ganda's thread). Ultimately, to quote Josh:
Just to follow up...
The topic "Ask David Matousek" at OA Forums, Has now been closed.
Josh.
Therefore I fail to see any further productive comments on this topic and leave it closed

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